| | JMJ
Everyone has heard the phrases, "My mom makes the best chocolate chip
cookie"--"my mom makes the best spaghetti"--"Mothers know best!"--"My
mother is the best mother in the world!" Yes, we have heard those
phrases before. And why wouldn't God think the same? Everyone believes
their mother is the best in the world, and why wouldn't God want the
best mother? If He would become flesh and redeem sinners, He would have
at least had a good mother. Imagine if you were going to sacrifice
your power and knowledge to become a dog. Dogs aren't very smart nor
are they that powerful. One cannot think of such a thing. But God, who
is Love and Life, became one of us, who are dumb and weak. Now, why
isn't it reasonable for HIM to make the best mother when if WE had the
choice to do so, we would? It is reasonable that if God was to become
one of these dogs, He would have at least one great dog with Him. Just
as a good son makes a great name for his mother heaping all amount of
praise on her, so too shall the divine Son of God make His Mother the
greatest of all! Everyone has a blueprint of whom they
love. We even have a blueprint of what kind of music we like. So God
too has a blueprint of His love, and His music. That is of course why
He made her what He wanted her to be: the greatest woman of all, Mary.
Many have said that Catholics "adore," "worship," or make her a
"goddess" like the pagan gods, but since no one is guilty of such
nonsense, these misunderstandings shall be ignored. For those who want
to know why Catholics honor Mary so, it is because her Son isn't an
ordinary son. If Jesus were an ordinary man, we would not give much
attention to the mother. We always want to know who is the mother of a
great man. Mary in the Scriptures We read in the Scriptures that God will become flesh, and one of the questions will be, "how?" God
will become flesh by being born of the Woman (Gal 4:4) who with the
Savior will crush the cobra's head (Gen 3:15; cf. Col 2:15; Rom 16:20;
Heb 2:14; 1 John 3:8). He made a Woman who will separate God and sin,
that there would be "great enmity" between the Woman and the serpent.
So from the first moment of her conception, the Woman (Eve created
without sin, Mary the New Eve conceived without sin) was preserved from
sin, preserved by the grace of God from even falling into the serpent's
grasp. God became a divine person, God and Man. He would
have eyes, nose, ears, lips, and body, yet be fully God. To be the New
Adam, He needed to experience Eden as well. It was appropriate that He
have a place that was pure, without the effects of sin. The womb of
Mary was His Eden. In order for this to happen, Mary herself would have
the choice of bringing this Child into the world.
God made man with free will. If He did so, He would have to make Mary,
even though immaculately conceived by the grace of God, have free will
as well. So that there would be no destruction of human dignity, He
also asked Mary if she would, with her own free will, make God flesh.
And so God sent His messenger Gabriel to Nazareth, and said, "Hail, favored one [or full of grace]! The Lord is with you." (Luke 1:28) This is a parallel to Judith 13:18 when it says, "Blessed
are you, daughter, by the Most High God, above all the women on earth;
and blessed be the Lord God, the creator of heaven and earth, who
guided your blow at the head of the chief of our enemies." God
was foreshadowing here that Mary, the Woman who would be immaculately
conceived, with Jesus the Seed of the Woman, would crush the cobra's
head (cf. Gen 3:15). So the angel goes on to say, "Behold,
you will conceive in your womb and bear a son, and you shall name him
Jesus. He will be great and will be called Son of the Most High, and
the Lord God will give him the throne of David his father, and he will
rule over the house of Jacob forever, and of his kingdom there will be
no end." (Luke 1:32-33) Here we
should expect that Mary would be excited because she will bear the
Messiah. But she became troubled because she doesn't know how this
would happen since she is a virgin. And so she says, "How can this be, since I have no relations with a man?" (Luke 1:34) And the Angel tells how this would be, "The
Holy Spirit will come upon you, and the power of the Most High will
overshadow you. Therefore the child to be born will be called holy, the
Son of God." (Luke 1:35) Now Mary
has another problem. She had to choose whether to ratify her redemption
and co-redeem mankind. Imagine if she says NO. This would mean that
there would be no cross, no resurrection, no redemption! Everyone who
is reading this passage should cross their fingers in hope that Mary
would say YES. If she didn't, no redemption, and if she does, even for
the "greatest" man in the world we can say, "This man is worth dying
for." Everything is at stake. Think of the miracles
Jesus did to save man. Think of the world with hope. Think of the
Christians who died for this Man. Think of the great Saints who gave
themselves up to Jesus and made the world a better place. Do you think
this would happen if Mary said NO? And so in order for this to happen,
in order for the redemption of man to happen, Mary would have to say
YES. One part of her role in the redemption is to make the prophecy be
fulfilled. And so she says, "Behold, I am the handmaid of the Lord. May it be done according to your word." (Luke 1:38) Everyone
should be relieved that she said this. Now that she said those words,
they can read the rest of the Bible. They can think of the great things
Jesus did, and what man has accomplished in His name. We read more from
Scripture, "During those days
Mary set out and traveled to the hill country in haste to a town of
Judah, where she entered the house of Zechariah and greeted Elizabeth.
When Elizabeth heard Mary's greeting, the infant leaped in her womb,
and Elizabeth, filled with the Holy Spirit, cried out in a loud voice
and said, "Most blessed are you among women, and blessed is the fruit
of your womb. And how does this happen to me, that the mother of my
Lord should come to me? For at the moment the sound of your greeting
reached my ears, the infant in my womb leaped for joy. Blessed are you
who believed that what was spoken to you by the Lord would be
fulfilled." (Luke 1:39-45) What
can we learn from this? Well, we can learn Mary's characteristics,
which are different from the world. Mary, who is humble, forgot about
herself, and praised God instead, "My
soul proclaims the greatness of the Lord; my spirit rejoices in God my
savior. For he has looked upon his handmaid's lowliness; behold, from
now on will all ages call me blessed. The Mighty One has done great
things for me, and holy is his name. His mercy is from age to age to
those who fear him. He has shown might with his arm, dispersed the
arrogant of mind and heart. He has thrown down the rulers from their
thrones but lifted up the lowly. The hungry he has filled with good
things; the rich he has sent away empty. He has helped Israel his
servant, remembering his mercy, according to his promise to our
fathers, to Abraham and to his descendants forever." (Luke 1:46-55) This
is not an ordinary woman! This is a mother! A word that the world has
forgotten! Instead, the world believes in so-called "feminism" : that
man has abused women so much in the past, they are tired of it, and
they will revolt anytime they feel anything would hurt "womanhood."
Don't be fooled with this kind of womanhood vs. true womanhood. We see
for example the works of Mary and the Pro-Abortion (or so-called
"Pro-Choice") crowd. Mary: She learns that Elizabeth,
her relative, is in need of help. Instead of thinking about the need of
herself, she walks to her old relative. She did this because it is the
right thing to do and family is first. Pro-Abortion:
When a woman who is pregnant needs help because she has no choice but
to murder the child, they say, "Let her do it; it is her choice." They
believe that no one has the right to go to the woman and tell her what
is right because it is her "choice." Mary: She greets
Elizabeth, and we find out when motherhood starts. "And how does this
happen to me, that the mother of my Lord should come to me." We see how
Elizabeth calls her mother even though she is still pregnant. Elizabeth
knows how important this child is; not only that, but we know human
life is sacred. We see that Mary is now called Mother after her fiat
(her YES to God). Pro-Abortion: A woman becomes a mother
when she chooses to be one. The child in her womb isn't a child if she
believes it isn't. More important, a woman has the choice of even
murdering the child after the birth. Motherhood doesn't have meaning
until one chooses to make it so, and their whole pride falls.
Mary: Instead of having joy for herself, she gives praise to God who
has done great things for her. She does not have pride, but is humble.
She does the will of God first, then thinks of herself.
Pro-Abortion: Have pride because you are a woman. Whatever a man does,
you can do it too. Do not do what God says, but believe what you think
He says. When a man goes to the moon, you should too (hooray for women
astronauts, I'm not against them, just making a point). When man
becomes a President, you have the right to be one too. Become man and
forget motherhood! We see the difference between
true womanhood and so-called "feminism." Womanhood comes from the
greatest woman who ever lived, and feminism comes from those who want
to be men. Feminism forgets that the best thing to be in this world is
a mother. They forget that mothers bring love to their homes. So we
need a Woman who will bring love to the world. This love is Jesus of
course (John 3:16). Mary and Christmas
Christmas day is probably the best day for everyone. It is when
presents are given and received. Everyone knows that giving is what we
should do on Christmas. But let's take a look at Christmas day.
Every woman, when she gives birth, looks to the heavens and thanks God
for their precious child. But here was a Madonna, who looked down, for
heaven was in her arms. She gave the best present a person can give.
She gave birth to Jesus Christ. We see God became flesh, and the
heavens rejoice! We also see the point of the Gospel.
That is to come first, then go. You should come to He who will give you
everything you need. Then, go to the world and preach the Good News.
That is why Jesus' first word is, "Come," then the last, "Go." We see
the shepherds do this on that Day. This gives us a glimpse of who this
Child will be. We see after they visited, it says, "Mary kept all these
things, reflecting on them in her heart." She knows that this Child
will attract men, and she must have a part of it too, meaning she has a
role in the redemption as well. We see how this will be when we read, "...And
Simeon blessed them and said to Mary his mother, 'Behold, this child is
destined for the fall and rise of many in Israel, and to be a sign that
will be contradicted (and you yourself a sword will pierce) so that
thoughts of many hearts will be revealed.'" (Luke 2:34-35) This
foreshadows the Cross, which we will talk about later. We see that Mary
will suffer as well as her Son. This means that man will come to her
with grief and she has to show them to her Son. This would be a long
time until this happens, but it will be a short time until she is
reminded again that this will happen. We read, "Each
year his parents went to Jerusalem for the feast of Passover, and when
he was twelve years old, they went up according to festival custom.
After they had completed its days, as they were returning, the boy
Jesus remained in Jerusalem, but his parents did not know it. Thinking
that he was in the caravan, they journeyed for a day and looked for him
among their relatives and acquaintances, but not finding him, they
returned to Jerusalem to look for him. After three days they found him
to the temple, sitting in the midst of the teachers, listening to them
and asking them questions, and all who heard him were astounded at his
understanding and his answers. When his parents saw him, they were
astonished, and his mother said to him, 'Son, why have you done this to
us? Your father and I have been looking for you with great anxiety.'
And he said to them, 'Why were you looking for me? Did you not know
that I must be in my Father's house?' But they did not understand what
he said to them. He went down with them and came to Nazareth, and was
obedient to them; and his mother kept all these things in her heart.
And Jesus advanced in wisdom and age and favor before God and man."
(Luke 2:41-52) This is the first
time we see what Jesus' ministry will be. He will be teaching many like
He has taught in the temple. Not only that, we see that the people in
the temple were listening to what He says. Knowing that they were
listening, He showed them a virtue that they have forgotten. That is
obedience. He showed that all this knowledge was nothing compared to
obedience. He shows that He knows all these things because He obeyed
His mother. Jesus needed to be taught by His parents as well. Jesus
would also have taught His parents. Now, why would Jesus need to be
taught if He is God Incarnate? Simple, He was man as well. People
forget that Jesus was a man. He didn't "seem" to be human, He was one.
Even though He has the power, He had limits as well. If I had a
powerful eye, and could see everything, and closed my eyes, I cannot
see. Or if I shut one eye, I would not see as well as if both eyes were
open. One might ask, "Why was Mary anxious if
Jesus was God?" Anyone who asks this question isn't asking a logical
question. One would forget what motherhood is all about if he asks this
question. I can ask a better question, "Why did Joseph and Mary go out
to buy bread and leave Jesus in Bethlehem, if He was God?" Not only
that, this helps us show how loving Mary is. The minute
she found out that Jesus was in trouble; they quickly try to find Him.
Note that this 12 year old isn't an ordinary 12 year old. This 12 year
old would soon become the redeemer of mankind. They would not want
anything to happen to this boy. So when Mary was anxious, she was
showing that she was a good mother. If she weren't anxious, she
wouldn't be a good mother. Any good mother would be anxious if her
child is lost. Even though this boy is God, they were still anxious.
This shows how great Mary was. We also see that it said
that "his mother kept all these things in her heart." We see that Mary
has been reminded how hard this will be when Jesus is ready to redeem
the world. This passage means that she remembered what Simeon has told
her. We also see how it said that "Jesus advanced in
wisdom and age and favor before God and man." We do not know exactly
what He did in those years. We know however, that He was taught by His
parents about God. Either that, or He wanted to stall the redemption.
Why would He stall? Simple. Because He wanted to be with His mother as
often as he could. We know that this woman is God's love from the
beginning. He wanted to be a child and follow His mother. He would not
have told us to be childlike if He did not do this Himself. If God
wanted all the honor, He would not have told us to keep the 4th
commandment (Honor your father and mother). We also see
that Jesus knows that His parents had authority over Him. If the world
lost its respect for authority, it is because they lost it first in the
home. When someone says that the Catholic Church focuses too much on
Mary, tell them that Jesus spent 90% of His life with His mother and
only 10% was given to His ministry. Mary Mediatrix of All Grace
The wedding at Cana is probably the best way to show how Mary was the
mediatrix of man or the mediatrix of all grace, as the Catholic Church
believes. The Scriptures say, "On the third day there was a wedding in Cana in Galilee, and the mother of Jesus was there." (John 2:1) One
could be confused how John would first mention Mary rather than Jesus.
It is because he wanted to show what this woman is like. She does not
want to be honored alone, but wants to give Jesus to the world as she
first did in Bethlehem. So we read, "When the wine ran short, the mother of Jesus said to him, 'They have no wine.'" (John 2:3) We
see that no one knew that they ran out of wine, but Mary knew. She
knows man's needs before we tell her. And so she says a little prayer
to Jesus, "They have no wine." This signifies the wine that Jesus will
give them at the Last Supper. When she said they have no wine, Mary is
saying, "This is it. It has been
a long time that we were together. It is their time now to have you.
They need bread that comes from above and a drink that will give them
eternal life. They need to be freed from their sins by your blood. They
have nothing to eat or drink. You need to give them yourself so that
they will have something to eat and drink. Your flesh is true food and
your blood is true drink, so you need to give them what they need." Jesus
responds by saying "Woman, how does your concern affect me? My hour has
not yet come" (John 3:4). In other words, He said, "Mother,
do you know what you are doing? You are giving me to the world. Do you
not know that when I suffer, you will suffer as well? Do you not
remember what Simeon has told you that a sword will pierce your heart?
If I do this, this means that you will not be called the mother of
Jesus anymore, but Woman. I am calling you what I have called Eve: you
will be the mother of all those living in Me. When you receive this
title, you will have to (painfully) redeem the world with me and that
you will bring me many souls. Those souls are the sword that Simeon has
told you about. This means that whoever my brother or sister is, they
are your sons and daughters. Are you sure you want me to do this?" Mary
gives her second fiat. "Do whatever He tells you." We know in John's
Gospel, the main point of the story is to believe in Jesus. "But
these are written that you may come to believe that Jesus is the
Messiah, the Son of God, and that through this belief you may have life
in his name." (John 20:31) So Jesus does make the miracle Mary has asked Him to do. And we see after they saw the miracle, "Jesus
did this as the beginning of his signs in Cana in Galilee and so
revealed his glory, and his disciples began to believe in him." We
see that they believed in him because He did the miracle. Who made them
do this miracle? Mary did. This is why she has been called the
Mediatrix. She is the Mediatrix because she made Jesus do the first
miracle in order for them to believe. If she didn't, this means that
the disciples would not believe in Him. We also see that her role will
be as a mother. She will guide many to Jesus. Jesus is the mediator of
God and man, and Mary is the mediator of Jesus and man (in fact we all
act as little co-mediators, co-workers with God, cf. 1 Tim 2:1-8; 1 Cor
3:9). Her role in the redemption will be a painful one because we know
that Jesus is one who suffers. Even though in the ministry, Jesus never stopped to honor His mother. We read, "He
was told, 'Your mother and your brothers are standing outside and they
wish to see you.' He said to them in reply, 'My mother and my brothers
are those who hear the word of God and act on it.'" In other words, He said, "No!
Mary is not my mother because she gave birth to me, but because she
gave her fiat to my Father and to me. She is my mother because she
heard the word of God, and acted on it." We also see Mary's role in the redemption at the cross of her son. As we read, "Woman, behold your son. Then he said to the disciple, 'Behold, your mother.'" (John 19:29) We
know that the disciple is John. But here, we see John uses the word
disciple. This means that whoever is a disciple must take Mary upon his
hand. We see that no one directly came to the cross. Who would? Note
that the Spirit has not yet arrived, and they see Jesus carrying His
cross. Would you follow Him? You probably would be humiliated and not
know what you are doing. So you see the mother, and go to her instead.
This means that in order for one to carry the cross, you need to take
the Mother with you. And Mary will not refuse because Jesus told her
that she would take our hands too. So if anyone wants to come to Jesus,
to come to the cross, we must come to her as well. We would not know
the way if our mother does not give us the way or guide us. One
might ask why didn't Jesus take Mary when He was going to ascend to His
Father? Simple. Just as Jesus in human form as an infant needed Mary,
so too the Mystical Body of Christ needs a mother. How can we trust
Mary if she was not at the cross, but Jesus was? Jesus had His hands
and feet nailed, and Mary had her heart pierced with a sword. The sword
symbolizes that this Woman will guide us to her Son so that we would be
at the cross as well! She knows Jesus the most. John
wrote a fantastic Gospel because he stayed with Mary. Mary knew in
Bethlehem that the Word became flesh. That is why John's Gospel is so
unique because it is taught by a Mother. Of course, this Mother would
give us hope as well. God knows that Jesus is too hard to understand.
So He gives us a mother. Mothers know best! We see the
comparison of Jesus and Mary: Jesus is the King, and Mary is the Queen.
Jesus is perfect, and so is Mary. Jesus ascended into heaven, and Mary
was assumed. Jesus is the mediator, and so is Mary. Like Mother like
Son! We must not be discouraged to hold the Woman's hand at the cross
because she is the one that leads us to her Son. Apolonio Latar |
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